I forget to tell these amazing activities im doing now. By this time, ive been over in Cianjur for like almost a month, around 3 weeks to be exact. Yep.
What am i dong? Well.. It is a subject from place where im studying, called community development. From the tittle itself we can conclude that the main idea is “to develop people”. Yes, im here to help people in Cianjur, desa babakan sari, to be financially independent (ihope). We live here for a month, started from Jan 28th to Feb 28th.
In this case, me and my team decided to build ikan lele breed for our partner, in hope they can enlarge it and gain profit from it. It sounds fun, yes it is, but still we do have ups and downs, overcoming obstacles, and problems. But yet, it still fun! Our partner here have 5 childrens, 3 of them are very young, just like my brother Ang! Here are some photos i get while im here. See you soon on my next post!
After gave a visit to some wedding planner and decoration sites on the internet. Makin ngga bisa tidur. Salah. Bubar. Terlalu iseng.
But just imagining those things are just toooooo exciting. My wild brain started to blow some wild ideas about what my future wedding scheme would be like, its theme, food to served, bridesmaid and bridesman uniform, invitation design, outfit to choose kebaya or gown, whos the deaigner would be, entertainment, venue, layout, and lotssssss more.
Let me share my wild ideas pleasee haha, it is just to frustating to keep these alone. Ok, well, where to begin?! Haha. Hm, from what i saw on a wedding planner site, the first thing to planned about is..
1. the guest list.
Well, im a type of a person who gets easily uncomfortable in a crowded area, been to a wedding party before, full with people, hard to breathe and so sesak. maybe because im a shorty haha cant see things and feel lost easily, so uncomfortable. So for the guest list, i think it will be depend on the venue. What its capacity and how big it would be. Not so full, maybe around 70% from the capacity, seeing there would be spaces for catering, stage and stuffs. Plus not all the invitations would come, depressiasion of 20% plus “uninteded” guests 5% so it would be around ya 65% from the capacity lah yaa..
2. Budgeting
Venue 30%, catering 30%, decoration 10%, clothing and makeup 10%, 10% decoration, 5% printed invutation, and 5% other expenses.
3. Theme!!!!
First, it must be indoor, because i like coolness, and i dont want to be sweated around at my own wedding, lepek2 gitu ga lucu… Haha. The color scheme is earth color, such as green daun-daun, dustyy blue, chocolate kayu, white, creme, and grey. Hihi. And pinkkk please. I want a BIG cherry blossom tree there. I want MANY MANY daun daun merambat dan some trees all over the place. Romantic jungle maybe? Hahaha i just love natural creatures. So thats why i dont want to be soooo crowded sampe ngga bisa gerak gt. I want guests yg dateng will so comfortable disana, i want chairs i want cute sofas, so people can sit! Standing terus tuh cape, making people uncomfortable and pengen leave as soon as they finish eating. Huf. Jepang2 scheme kayanya lucu yaaa (haha (obviously too obsessed. But nah. I will just take the cherry blossom tree. I want a javanese ambience there, blangkon, kebaya jawa, traditional will still be the main idea but covered with natural modern and FUN ambience also. Ya, please just swallow my rough description. I want my guests also contributed in the wedding, i dont know how but i just want to. Its my wedding planner’s task. About the after party, still confuse…. cause im not a party cheme liker, but for fun, why not? beat up music and stuffs 😎😎 The principle things are pokonya ga mau sesek, comfortable, homey, not too serious, full of fun, FUN FUN FUN FUN. Javanese. The light would not too lighty but not too dim also. Yep. Thats what i want.
4. Venue
Well, to be truthful, im bored with hotels in jakarta. Too, kaku for me. Kaya terbatas dan formal bgt. Tapi ya gmn? Where else would it be beside hotel? (Hh. Jakarta udh full of people, no spaces between houses, kalo bikin ngga di hotel pasti ricuh. Hope in my era ada venue lucu ya di jakarta. Hope so :-)
5. Vendors!!
Caterer: dont know which one, but i must definitely put SUSHI AND SASHIMI in the list yo! The menu would be a mix between traditional and standard european. But more to explore traditional side, kaya 70-30 gitu. Makanan jawa dan my groom’s traditional dish.
Make-up: natural look, jawa kemayu
Designer: kebaya zi kayanya pas resepsi lebih anggun… Bcuse i want a javanese theme kan.. Contradict bgt kalo pake gown. So yep, kebayaa!!! Anne avantie? How bout that mom? Hahaha or biyan bride? Uzz..
Entertainers: this is hard. But yes, i want traditional dancers around, gamelan playing non stop jadi back sound, and special performance from…….tulus please!!!!!!!! 😍😍😍 the only singer on earth yang bisa bikin nangis cuma karna denger lagu dia. Teman hidup will definitely be sung in wedding. I love you tulus. dont want anyone else. Photo booth for souvenirs.
Photographer: macam2 alodita yang sweety gidu..
6. Comittee
Family and dear friends….
Matching outfits kembi-an semuwaaa pake javanese an
So DONE!
Exemples from photos i found will be uploaded soon, remembering its already 1am in here
Bismillah. Let me put it wwwwright here to become real 😊😇
Sorry for the long post ✌
After rethinking about my biggest ambition to travel to Japan, I decided to keep it as my most precious journey that I will ever do. So, in term of that, i’ll keep Japan as my destination for……. Honeymoon! haha. Imagining travel accompanied by my other half, picnic around the cherry blossom park, stargazing at night, sleeping together in a romantic scenery just make me want to be married by NOW hahaha. (nope. 5/6 more years by now?) (I hope…………
Wait for me, Tokyo, Kyoto, hokkaido, and Mt. Fujiiii
Last year I put some photos of clothes, shoes, bags i wanted, and magically some of it are granted by God, Alhamdulillah.. Now lets put more photos in this year! Haha
